My wife and I are both in our early 50s. If things are going well, we get on OK, but if there is a problem we just argue. There is no meeting of minds, no talking through something. So either nothing gets said or we have big, horrible arguments. The hardest part for me is regarding sex. Every three weeks or so we might have sex, but I am always frustrated by it.
I’m depressed about the vanilla sex I have with my wife
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What Is ‘Vanilla Sex’ and Is It Necessarily a Bad Thing?
According to experts, we're all having — and loving — "boring" sex. Vanilla sex is widely considered to be the most basic way to bang. But I bet if you asked 10 different people to define 'vanilla sex,' you'd get 10 different answers.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions will remain anonymous.